Sole warrior in an armed battlefield

Talk about single women, screenshots of the attractive brighter side like that of “sex and the city” characters pass through my mind. Women who have an era to celebrate their life on and yet cherish their own personal time. Independent, individualistic, courageous, self motivated may be few of sugar coated traits that would define those single princesses. But as illusory as it may seem in retrospect, within every strong hearted single princess is a weakling waiting desperately to be rescued by her knight (borrowed from SATC, again).

Uncommitted life comes with its own anxieties of single handedly managing all life chores. From handling her own finances to defending herself for her cause in this male chauvinistic society, she constantly fights to makes her survival secure. In pretending to be positive, I see her stacking up diminutive doses of stress and depression to her biological system. Topping it all up, the lack the intimate emotional support that marriage could offer (and which no friend can ever offer) makes her physiological health proportional to amount of self-motivation shots injected into her mind.

In all this, I recognize these vulnerable loners playing a role of that of a MAN, combating to prove her existence to herself. Science has indeed proved to us that stress level increases the level testosterone hormones in our immune system. In being single she breaks out of the gender laws layed by nature only to be disappointed. My Bible says "It is not good for man to be alone" but to me “It is highly dangerous for a women to be single”. For her feminine beauty is only revealed through congenial lovable presence of her Man.

My message? Life’s greatest happiness and satisfaction lies in God made communion called Marriage/ Family* Conditions Apply :)